Nov 10 2008

19-Year-Old Gloria Moore Goes Drinking With Friends, Leaves 10-Month-Old Home Alone

Category: ParentingTim @ 11:57 am

Shocking news out of Oregon today:

Gloria Moore

Gresham police said Gloria C. Moore went out with friends last Thursday and left her 10-month-old alone in a playpen. The girl was abandoned for six hours. When finally found, she was in a puddle of her own urine, police said.

This should be shocking news, but it seems like we hear it on a regular basis. That poor little girl. Thank goodness for Ms. Moore’s friends

Officers made the discovery after a disturbance call at the Berry Ridge Apartments on West Powell Boulevard just after midnight. Moore was arguing with friends after they discovered she’d left her child unattended.

Once again we are reminded that you don’t need any type of permit or certification to have children. All you need is the ability to reproduce and you can be a parent. The real tragedy here is the fate of that poor little girl. She will either grow-up with a mother who is clearly a child herself or as a ward of the state. Neither seems like a good option to me.


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Nov 04 2008

Live Voting on CNN: Barack Obama is Voting Live

Category: 2008 Election, Humor, Parenting, PoliticsTim @ 7:50 am

If you have a chance, go to CNN and watch the candidates vote live. I know it’s just a gimmick, but it’s cool to see them at the machines.

By the way, Obama took way to long to be voting the straight party ticket. Good for him!

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Oct 29 2008

Nebraska Safe Haven Law - A Place to Dump Your Teenager

Category: ParentingTim @ 3:03 pm

While Nebraska may have had the best of intentions in mind, they are having big problems with the execution of their new “safe haven” law:

OMAHA, Neb. (AP) — A 17-year-old boy was confirmed Wednesday as the 23rd child abandoned under the state’s unique safe-haven law, as the governor prepared to address changes in the law.

State officials said the boy’s stepfather and mother took him to BryanLGH Medical Center West in Lincoln late Tuesday and that the boy was in state care.

Lincoln Police Capt. Jim Thoms said the parents told officers the boy wouldn’t follow their rules and that they couldn’t afford some programs he needed.

Nebraska’s safe-haven law is the only one in the country that lets caregivers leave children as old as 18 at a state-licensed hospital without fear of prosecution for the abandonment.

The law was intended to protect infants, but it failed to define “child” in its wording.

The law is apparently the answer to the age-old question, “What do you do with a teenager who won’t listen to you?” In Nebraska, you drop them at the hospital and let the state deal with them:

A woman drove her troubled 12-year-old son to Nebraska from Georgia and abandoned him under the state’s safe-haven law, which parents have used to leave 20 children at hospitals since the law took effect in July.

According to the Fort Mills Times, of the 23 kids dropped off so far, the majority are in their teens, they come from Nebraska, Michigan, Georgia, and Iowa, and include a family of 9 kids ranging in age from 1 to 17. Can you imagine dropping off your 9 kids and leaving for good? Who could do that?

The law was intended to be a safe-haven for infants and toddlers, not a dumping ground for teenagers. Nebraska Governor Dave Heineman is taking action:

LINCOLN, Neb. (AP) — Deciding he could wait no longer to address what has become a state embarrassment, Gov. Dave Heineman said Wednesday he will call a special legislative session to amend Nebraska’s loosely worded safe-haven law, which in just a few months has allowed parents to abandon nearly two dozen children as old as 17.

Heineman had planned to wait until the next regular legislative session convened in January, but changed his mind as the number of children dropped off at hospitals grew. Two teenagers were abandoned Tuesday night alone, and three children dropped off previously did not even live in Nebraska.

“We’ve had five in the last eight days,” Heineman said in explaining why he called a special session. “We all hoped this wouldn’t happen.”

The special session will begin Nov. 14. That’s less than two months before the regular legislative session, but the governor and others see a need to act quickly.

This entire situation is funny on the surface but tragic at the core. It provides a graphic illustration of the skills needed to parent teens and the glaring lack of support for those in the middle of the teen years. Teens can be a pain, but driving to Nebraska and dumping them off should never be an option. Hopefully, Nebraska will get things right again soon.

In the mean time, if you have a teen who is troubling you, get to Nebraska quickly!


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Oct 21 2008

New Study: Cell Phones and the Internet Bringing Families Closer

Category: Kids & Technology, ParentingTim @ 9:25 am

Just when you were sure that all the time spent texting, emailing, surfing, blogging, chatting, and generally being plugged in was a bad thing, a new study from the Pew Internet & American Life Project has produced some interesting results:

A national survey has found that households with a married couple and minor children are more likely than other household types — such as single adults, homes with unrelated adults, or couples without children to have cell phones and use the internet.

The survey shows that these high rates of technology ownership affect family life. In particular, cell phones allow family members to stay more regularly in touch even when they are not physically together. Moreover, many members of married-with-children households view material online together.

So, technology is connecting families to each other and improving the quality of the family unit. Interesting. Wait, it gets better.

Technology was found to be beneficial for family life, according to the study, since families using the most technology are also more likely to share more moments with family members when they are online.

On the other hand, technology can also kill family time in some cases, as dual-income households have reported less family time, and more work, partly due to the use of internet. They are also less likely to participate in family leisure time or eat family dinner, a percentage that rises with the rate of technology ownership.

However, we can’t ignore the fact that technology enables new ways of communication: 70 percent of couples who both own a cell phone contact each other at least once a day, to say hello or chat, compared to just 54 percent of couples who own just one or no cell phone.

OK. So you have to be careful with too much tech time and put the phone down when you are eating or having leisure time. I’ll buy that. My son will back me up on this one, “Put that phone down at the dinner table!”

If the increased technology time is not coming at the expense of family time, where is it coming from?

The survey also found that the Internet has affected family television viewing habits — one-fourth of respondents reported that they are watching less TV.

Another blow to the networks. We have heard about the evils of watching too much TV forever. Now, it looks like we may be listening. Of course, we are texting while driving, or fumbling with a cell phone in traffic, or stepping off a busy curb while reading email, or being awoken at all hours by an incoming text message, or …


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Oct 17 2008

iPod Hit by Train

Category: Kids & Technology, ParentingTim @ 7:32 am

I know this is not a new story, but it illustrates another sure sign of the impending apocalypse .

Train Approaching

WOODFIN – A 23-year-old man who police said was listening to an iPod suffered severe injuries after being struck from behind by a freight train on Tuesday.

Aaron James Parker V, of Asheville, was walking on a stretch of track between Flynn Branch and Farm Roads, authorities said.

“The engineer blew the air horn several, several times, and then the boy turned around right before the train hit him, and he tried to jump out of the way,” Woodfin police officer Charles Robinson said.

Parker landed about 20 feet from the tracks, Robinson said. He was in Mission Hospitals’ intensive care unit late Tuesday and in stable condition. Parker suffered several injuries, including broken bones, broken ribs, shoulder injuries and head injuries, West Buncombe Fire Department deputy chief Randy Ratcliff said.

Hit by a train! How loud is your iPod if you can’t hear a train? That level of volume can’t be good for the ears. I found an interesting article on the FDA site:

“One of the things that bothers me is that [young people] are aging their ears before their chronological time,” says audiologist David Lipscomb, who has researched hearing loss in students at the University of Tennessee.

In the fall of 1969, he tested the hearing of entering freshmen and found about 60 percent of them had hearing loss. Fourteen percent of the young men tested had hearing similar to the average 65-year-old. By comparison, only 3.8 percent of sixth-graders had hearing loss, suggesting that something–probably noise–was damaging hearing during the teen years.

“We know that the average 70-year-old will have some impairment from aging,” says Lipscomb. “But for young people [exposed to loud noises], the aging process is speeded up. They’re blowing their spare tires.”

Well, how do you know if you have it too loud? The article suggests this:

The rule of thumb for listening to music is to keep it low enough so that you can hear other sounds above the tunes. If you’re listening to a Walkman portable radio or similar headset, no one else should be able to hear your music.

I like the sound of that. At the risk of ridicule and scorn from my teenage son, I think iPods have become a bit of a nuisance. I love listening to mine when I want tune out the outside world. I use it on the bus, when I’m working on a deadline, or just vegging. What drives me nuts are people who wear them constently and expect to have conversations with you by removing one ear phone. What’s even worse are those who have the volume so loud that all around can hear. Let’s face it, when you are in your late 30s, jamming Michael Bolten on the bus does not make you cool. Seriously.


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Jun 11 2007

Coca-Cola’s MySpace, the Sprite Yard

Category: Kids & Technology, Parenting, Sci/TechTim @ 12:00 pm

It looks like Coca-Cola has stepped-up their Internet marketing campaign:

The Coca-Cola Company is redefining the relationship between consumers and their sparkling beverages with the launch of the Sprite Yard, a real-time digital “on-the-go” community that provides social connections and downloadable content via their mobile phone anytime, anywhere. This mobile marketing breakthrough launched in China on June 1st and will go live in the US later this month.

The Sprite Yard creates an entertaining social experience beyond the value of traditional online destinations by providing consumers constant mobile, social and brand connectivity through mobile devices such as cell phones and personal digital assistants (PDAs).

Coke is definitely on the right track. The marketing money being spent on Internet will boggle the mind:

Studies have predicted that mobile marketing will increase sharply in the coming years, and Google, Yahoo and Microsoft have all introduced mobile-friendly search interfaces.

Mobile advertising could account for 25% of global internet advertising spend by 2011.

But what are they really trying to accomplish?

“The brand becomes the enabler of mobile social connections,” Mark J. Greatrex, senior vice president of marketing communications and insights at Coca-Cola, told a gathering of the nation’s leading mobile marketing executives. “The Yard users literally have their friends in their pockets.”

The mobile marketing effort is part of Coca-Cola’s plan to “create, connect and customize on-the-go experiences,” according to Mr. Greatrex.

Sprite’s “usage over-indexes with mobile phone usage,” Mr. Greatrex said. “This is Generation C and they’re right at the center of the mobile target audience.”

Genius. In case you have not heard, this is how Wikipedia defines Generation C:

Generation C could be said to comprise the people who use Web 2.0, create user-generated content and participate in the co-creation of products and services.

It’s getting harder and harder for marketers to reach Generation C and this effort means users will go to the Sprite Yard to interact with their peers. What could be easier? Only one question remains, how long will it take Generation C to see through the marketing campaign and declare the Sprite Yard as lame? There is a reason why it is hard to reach Generation C, they are at least a couple of steps ahead of the marketers.


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Jan 29 2007

Texas: No-Pass, No-Play, Well Maybe…

Category: Parenting, Youth SportsTim @ 8:10 am

In 1984, the Texas legislature passed the “No-Pass, No-Play” bill that sent a message to high school athletes, band members, and all extracurricular participants; if you don’t make passing grades, you will not be participating in sports/activities. As a parent of a high school athlete, I applaud this act and the message it sends to our kids that grades come first.

Of course, over the past 23 years, loop-holes have developed. On Sunday, the Dallas Morning News had a very interesting story about how schools are finding the exceptions to No-Pass, No-Play:

UIL records show students in many other districts could easily craft a schedule in which nearly all of their classes are exempt from no-pass, no-play.

The state lets districts exempt Advanced Placement, International Baccalaureate, dual-college enrollment and other top-level classes.

On top of that, school boards are allowed to add courses to their no-pass, no-play exemption lists as long as they label them as somehow “advanced” or “honors.”

The districts must submit their exemption lists to UIL, but no one reviews the lists and districts don’t need to update them every year. Districts can also ban exemptions.

“There is kind of a broad range of allowance there,” said Bill Farney, executive director of UIL. “We don’t have a master list of courses they can and cannot exempt. Trying to make one rule fit everybody ends up with some discrepancy and some difference in interpretation or application.”

Once again, we’ve taken a simple concept and destroyed it with exceptions. Out one side of our mouths we are saying, “everyone must get good grades” while the other side says, “except for you.”

I understand the other side of this argument. I know there are kids who are only in school for athletics and they may be “lost to the streets” if they cannot play. I also understand the roll of tradition and sports in the psyche of many Texans. I think we need to realize what effect this has on the kids. Making exceptions like this says to kids, there is always an exception, you just have to find it.

In schools where No-Pass, No-Play is working, you have coaches/sponsors actively checking grades, creating study periods, developing mentoring programs, communicating with parents, and doing whatever they can to keep the kids engaged. I’ve seen schools celebrate the student athlete as the student first and the results of that emphasis is a well-balanced kid.

How can we feel any outrage at professional athletes behaving as if the rules don’t apply to them when we teach them that from the beginning? Do you really think Terrell Owens had to pass all of his classes?


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Jan 23 2007

MySpace Used to Protect Children

Category: Kids & Technology, ParentingTim @ 7:39 am

The much-maligned social networking site, MySpace has taken an important step in repairing its image:

Popular online social network MySpace said on Tuesday it will begin sending online alerts to users in certain U.S. regions to help find missing children as part of an expansion of plans to expand safeguards for users.

MySpace struck a partnership with the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children to enable MySpace AMBER alerts, a program between the media and law enforcement to issue early warning broadcast bulletins in serious child abduction cases.

It is part of an upgrade by News Corp.-owned MySpace of safety features designed to address concerns of child safety advocates, some of whom say it has been slow to keep its many teenage members safe from adult predators.

Now this is an arrangement that makes complete sense. Consider the volume of MySpace users:

With 150 million profiles, MySpace is seen as one of the Web’s fastest-growing properties in terms of users. More than half of U.S. teens with online access use sites such as MySpace to stay in touch with friends, a recent Pew survey found.

Issuing missing child alerts to targeted areas via MySpace could be a huge help in recovery efforts. The question on my mind is, just how visible with these alerts be?

The Amber alerts, named after 9-year-old Amber Hagerman, who was kidnapped and murdered in 1996 in Texas, will appear in a small text box at the top of a profile, MySpace said. The alerts give MySpace users the option to get more information about the case, such as photos and information on suspects.

As a father, this news makes me very happy. While some may debate the potential success of issuing Amber Alerts on MySpace, the more you get the word out, the more likely you are to recover the child. With MySpace, you can reach millions of targeted users instantly for little or no cost. This one is a no-brainer.


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Dec 27 2006

More Trouble For MySpace - Identity Theft

Category: Kids & Technology, ParentingTim @ 8:41 am

MySpace has had its share of trouble in 2006, but now a fresh round of identity theft is again raging through MySpace:

MySpace bills itself as a “place for friends.” Increasingly, it is also a place for unfriendly attacks from digital miscreants on the prowl, luring users to sexually explicit Web sites, clogging mailboxes with spam messages and playing on the trust users have when speaking to “friends” to obtain passwords that could lead to identity theft.

Identity theft is the Darwinism of the 21st century. Someone asks you for your information and we provide it. Why does it seem so easy on MySpace?

A key reason behind the popularity is its ease. Simply by adding a few lines of computer code, users can create elaborate profiles and personalize them with photos, music and video. A host of communication tools makes it easy to send messages to one person or a whole list of friends, who number into the thousands for some of the more popular MySpace users.

Those same tools can be used by vandals to make it look like an innocent user has sent spam to the same long list of “friends.”

Programmers are writing scripts that take advantage of specific features on MySpace, including “friend request,” where one user asks to be added to another user’s list of buddies.

I’m wondering again if having a MySpace account is really worth the potential trouble. It’s probably the same story we’ve heard time and time again; criminal prey on the vulnerable or uneducated. Please educate your kids and make them less vulnerable.

MySpace needs to get their act together pretty quickly according to BUZZscreen:

Other popular social networking sites such as Facebook do not have issues like MySpace does. If MySpace doesn’t fix the existing problems in short order, it’s popularity peak may be reached.

And we all know what happens after anything peaks.

It’s all downhill from there.

I couldn’t agree more.


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Dec 14 2006

MySpace Passes Yahoo! in Page Views

Category: Kids & Technology, ParentingTim @ 8:59 am

Thanks to the popularity of MySpace, Yahoo was dethroned as the top site in November:

Social network MySpace drove parent Fox Interactive Media past typical leader Yahoo in number of page views in November, a Web metrics firm says.

Fox Interactive had 39.53 billion page views last month, while Yahoo had 38.05 billion, comScore Networks said Wednesday. As an indication of the impact of MySpace, Fox Interactive in November 2005, which is before parent News Corp. acquired MySpace, had 231 million page views from all its properties.

Of course, Yahoo does not see things the same way:

Yahoo argued that it had lost the top spot in terms of page views because it increasingly uses the latest “Web 2.0″ technology that did not need to spawn as many new pages to display Web information, a spokeswoman said.

ClickZ, an Internet marketing company, went a little further:

Be clear: this does not indicate MySpace and FIM are “biggest” online, whatever that means. Page views are a far from reliable measurement of success for a Web publisher. They fluctuate month to month for any site, and the advent of AJAX site navigation, which Yahoo has embraced in its mail app, reduces their number by not generating a new “view” for every click.

AJAX is a web technology that pushes new content out to web sites without “reloading” the page. Basically, the page gives you new information, but does not count as another page view. Cool for the user, not cool for the company counting the views.

LostRemote has this to say:

True enough, this is one of the biggest issues facing web developers today: AJAX improves usability but decreases page views. In fact, the Internet Advertising Bureau has urged both major web analytics companies to consider reforming its measurement practices to either account for partial refreshes or come up with a new metric for page views.

What strikes me in all of this discussion is something that has been around with the Internet since the first web pages. How do you accurately measure the success of anything on your site? Is it traffic, click-through rates, duration on the site, ad views, or something else? What is certain is this; what we think of success today will be pointless tomorrow.


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